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[grinninfoole]

I have realized today that, despite spending years trying to live differently from my father, I have been repeating one of his basic life mistakes these past few months.  Namely, instead of taking on new challenges and living life, I have been going to work, coming home, retreating into my shell, and hoping that my wife will fill the gaps in my life.  And, to her credit, she does fill a few.  But, in contrast to me, she's gotten involved in a BSG fanfic writing project that's not only lead her to write prolifically and consistently, she's also making new friends doing it. 

So, I have a line on a Wednesday night writing group I might join.  Next week, when I will have a day off, I'll start looking for a teaching gig I can fit in around my day job.

Two other important projects: get financially organized so we can figure out what we can and can't afford, and find someone to pave the driveway.

And, since someone today asked me what I'd like to have accomplished in five years time, I want to make Shodan in Aikido.

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[millari.livejournal.com]

I was sad to read this at first, and then happy to hear that you have been taking steps to change what you don't like. I for one, am glad that you are making efforts to widen your circle and connect more to your interests outside of just hanging out with me at home (which granted is nice, but not all there is to life....)

And I had no idea that you were seriously thinking about reviving your pursuit of Aikido training. I don't know what Shodan is, but I look forward to finding out!

Oh, and I love you.