Can I give you a suggestion that you don't have to take?
As a woman, if you asked me to dinner with yourself and your ex, I would be leary of whether you were actually interested in seeing me romantically. I mean, one of the things that stopped me from leaping on you and pawing you like a shameless school girl hussy at Dragoncon was that your woman was *right there*, staring at me as I undressed you with my eyes. As a decent woman, when I know the guy is *with someone* I mentally put him off limits (which is why you and I didn't hook up) because I don't wreck homes. You and M are still living together and honestly, a dinner invite like this would make me think that there was still something of a relationship between you and M. Again, I'm no relationship expert... I just worry your plan for dinner would backfire.
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As a woman, if you asked me to dinner with yourself and your ex, I would be leary of whether you were actually interested in seeing me romantically. I mean, one of the things that stopped me from leaping on you and pawing you like a shameless school girl hussy at Dragoncon was that your woman was *right there*, staring at me as I undressed you with my eyes. As a decent woman, when I know the guy is *with someone* I mentally put him off limits (which is why you and I didn't hook up) because I don't wreck homes. You and M are still living together and honestly, a dinner invite like this would make me think that there was still something of a relationship between you and M. Again, I'm no relationship expert... I just worry your plan for dinner would backfire.